Mary Larson 1953-2025

Mary L. Larson, 71, passed away on July 9, 2025, surrounded by her loved ones, after a brief but intense battle with a severe infection.

Mary was born July 13, 1953. She spent her childhood on a farm in the Hungry Hills near Montello, Wisconsin. She graduated from UWSP in 1976 with a degree in Education, and then married her longtime college boyfriend, Joe Larson. Their life together would ultimately span 49 years. They were also blessed with three children and eventually, five beloved grandchildren.

After graduation Mary ran a home daycare, then took a job as an Aide in the Special Education department of PJ Jacobs Junior High. She had a special love and talent for working with EBD students, and remained there for most of her career. She had many interests and as an adult she got her CNA license, taking some extra training in hospice care. She worked at local assisted living centers and enjoyed spending time with the seniors.

Mary wrote and published Hungry Hills Stories, a memoir about growing up in the country. She also wrote Good-Heart Medicine, which Joe edited and published after her death.

She loved reading, playing card games, dominoes, and watching Brewers and Packers games. She enjoyed walking and would bike the Green Circle trail in her free time. Although biking was no longer possible during the final chapters of her life, she never gave up on the idea of getting back out there. She was an excellent cook, and took delight in baking bread and her “Tastes Better than Cupcakes” granola.

Mary was a genuine and accepting person, and you could count on her to be direct and to the point. She was clear about her own end of life desires, and the family finds peace in having served as her voice when she could no longer speak.

Mary was preceded in death by her parents Gordon and Lila McFarlin, and by siblings Gene, Dennis, Kathy Morrical, Mike, Jim, and Lona Hardell. She is survived by her siblings Paula Knutson, Lori Murphy, and Gordon McFarlin, as well as her husband Joe Larson, their children Samantha Alvarez, Erik Larson, and Kelly Tielens (Tim), and grandchildren Serafina Larson, Rowan Tielens, Juniper Tielens, Joseph G. “Buggy” Larson, and Kai Alvarez. 

Visitation will be held at Boston Funeral Home in Stevens Point from Noon to 2:30 pm on Sunday, July 20. A time for sharing of memories will be held in the same location from 2:30 to 3:00 pm. A private burial will be held at a later date. 

In lieu of flowers, please support the Portage County Public Library, one of Mary’s favorite places.

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Harmony Brigade

I’ve been singing with the Northern Pines Harmony Brigade since they started in 2013. It’s extreme quartetting barbershop. You get the music for ten songs in, say, December. Then you come to the “Rally” weekend the following May having learned your part well enough to sing any of those ten songs in a randomly drawn quartet with three other lucky folks. It’s a contest with everybody there participating. It’s hard-fought, although we don’t take ourselves all that seriously.

There are sixteen Brigades around the country and Europe. If you’re looking, you can find a Brigade somewhere about once a month. Some welcome women into the group, some are men only.

Before and after the contest we all go around finding three other parts to sing with. I like to try to sing with everyone else there, just for the fun of it. After singing with everyone there in Kansas, I went back around and sang with everyone again.

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My Stroke Story

I’ve been asked several times now how I knew I was having a stroke and what it felt like. I think people are worried that they might have one themselves and wanted to know what it was like. I wish I had recognized it sooner but my brain was not working correctly at the time. I was in denial. My brain was working just fine, as far as I could tell.

Wednesday February 28, 2024. I woke up in bed alone. Mary was getting out of the hospital today and I would be picking her up and taking care of her — there are lots of reasons to be short of breath, and she found some.

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Let’s Climb Kilimanjaro

Eldest kid Sam was coming off several months working in a COVID ward in New York City and wanted to do something big before she started medical school in August 2021. Some of her medical buddies suggested going hiking in Iceland, because Iceland was letting people in. With COVID testing, of course. Other voices thought going to Africa and climbing Mount Kilimanjaro would be fun. Tanzania was also letting people come. We climbed Mount Fuji in Japan in 2014. That was fun and a real adventure. How much harder could Kilimanjaro be?

Lots harder, as it turned out.

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